Vaginismus - Ways to tell if Your Vagina is big and loose or small and tight
Posted: Friday, January 09, 2009
by Kacycarr
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Does size really matter, well this would depend on what we refer too. If we talk of a young child in a fight with someone twice their size, then yes, because no toddler is able for the teen, or if you hunger then a small size food portion will not fill your belly. What on earth has this got to do with vagina`s you may well ask, "satisfaction" that`s what. Both instances above are "unsatisfying" situations for the toddler and the tummy rumbler due to size restricting them from achieving, so this then connects both them pointers to the size of the vagina? If a person can get satisfaction from being well fed or from beating their opponent, then why wouldn`t a person want satisfaction from their love making. Does the size of the vagina matter; yes it does if it interferes with or stops you pleasuring in sex. If you or your partner gets no enjoyment while having sex because of looseness then yes it matters. If you`re sure the problem is in your department and not about your partner having a small willy, then you need to look for a way to tighten your vagina.
Is there a way of telling whether the vagina is either big or small, and of a natural size? Vaginal size is not a topical subject, so chances of finding out anything from friends and family through girlie gossip, is zilch. The vaginal wall is elasticity so exact size can never really be ascertained. If the vagina is relaxed the vaginal walls collapse into each other. The diameter is less than one inch and the length will be around 3 to 4 inches. Vagina size alters when ready for intercourse. At this time the diameter of the vagina is not the same throughout the vaginal tunnel.
The narrowest part of the vagina is the opening which widens as it goes in deeper. Normally the front part of vagina has a size of one and a half inches. The deeper into the vagina you go the bigger the diameter. The back end is usually a diameter of 2 1/2 inches. The front vagina wall has the length of 2 inches and the back end is 3 totaling approximately 6 inches.
Some pregnant women after giving birth find there vagina may have stretched through intense expansion. Most of these women turn to Kegel exercises to bring back vaginal tightness. Issues in relation to a loose vagina and vulva size are common, so no need to be embarrassed. Go along and speak with your GP if you`re worried over this. If you've never experienced giving birth, then it's highly unlikely that your vagina or vulva is too big. If you have been put off having sex because you have heard it stretches the vagina and makes it big, then you have heard wrong. What a load of codswollop, yes the vagina can stretch to accept the penis, but soon returns to normal size. Childbirth is a regular cause for vaginal looseness because it can affect dimensions, meaning, damaged muscles and other supporting tissues of the vaginal walls. Don`t be put off having children thinking this is a natural happening for women having baby`s, because it`s not, just ask the millions of moms the whole world over. There are things you can do to help prevent widening of the vagina by doing postnatal exercises that physiotherapists teach.
If the vaginal 'barrel' gives a feeling of largeness it can lead to the following:
- Unsatisfactory sexual intercourse.
- Likelihood of air getting into the vagina known as 'fanny farting'.
- Lax muscles and ligaments can lead to a prolapsed womb
Some women on a huge scale tend "not" to worry over size as much as they do of appearance. These same women believe they have an abnormal vagina because their vulva is either too large or the labia too long, or that bits of it protrude unevenly. If you are one of these women it does not mean you have an abnormal vagina, what it means is, is you have one slightly different from others. Getting back to vagina size, we have women who think their vagina too small. Statistically this is most unlikely. Symptoms that show smallness: is
- Sexual intercourse pain
- Not able to have sex
- Discomfort inserting a tampon
The tightness is actually caused by involuntary contractions of the pelvic floor muscles surrounding the vagina. The tightness can be so restrictive that the opening to the vagina shuts altogether making penetration near to impossible for the man. As like with most conditions there can be several specific types, and this applies to vaginismus also. If a woman has always experienced pain while having intercourse due to this muscle spasm it is called "primary vaginismus." Recognized suffering from this type is not able to wear tampons. Another type is the "secondary vaginismus" more known more for developing later in life. Women can have this after years of uncomplicated sexual intercourse. It is normally hurried along by a medical condition, traumatic event, childbirth, or menopause.
Vaginismus is curable and a condition not to be ashamed of. Your doctor is the person with all the answers if you need to know more. It is not a concern to deeply worry over, as treatment is pretty much straight forward. Vaginismus treatment does not require drugs, surgery, or any other complex persistent methods so no need to hold back on seeking treatment and endure suffering any longer.
Symptoms of vaginismus can include:
- Unintentional uncontrolled spasms of the muscles in the vagina
- Dread of pain
- Fear of penetration
- Loss of sexual yearning near to penetration
- Difficulty and pain, inserting a tampon, or penis
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Top-level comments on this article: (2 total)The article was very important to me i have 5 kids and on having the 4th one my virgina was very big and i did a lot of exercise as you have recomended it had helped a lot and im feeling like a 10 old kid now thanx a lot . Mary in Maseru LesothoThis is great news Mary - I wish I was feeling like a 10 year old it must be a great feeling. Keep your exercises up all the same because you need to keep fit for running around after your 5 kids. We moms need all the energy and strength we can getKeep wellKacy
I don't think 10 year olds should be feeling like that at all.-The concerned public.Hey Ryan I think you know what we meanKeep well from the concerned writerKacyI just read this page and I do agree with it, however, I am a little different. I am hoping that you have information for people like me. I have one child. She came out of me with an explosion. Ripped me all the way. Tore all of my ligaments leaving my bladder, colon, and uterus to fall out. I just had all of this repaired two months ago. The doc promised I would be better then before but I am not. I am larger then before. He said for me to do kegal ecxercises but I cant see how this is going to help something that dramatic. If you have any ideas or any hope please..... I beg..... help.. I feel alone in this
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