How to Get Your Dream Man & Signs To Say He Is The Perfect Guy
Posted: Sunday, February 15, 2009
by Kacycarr
http://www.spotthepimple.com
Is the perfect guy really so hard to come by? Is there such a thing as a flawless guy out there, if so then I would really love to meet him. In all my years on this earth I have yet to meet a man I couldn`t fault in one way or another (nice faults included.) What a girl needs to do is keep her expectations of the man she is looking for to a sensible level, and then there is every possibility that her dreams will come true and everything she ever expected from him will prevail.
Is there such a thing as a perfect guy?
Do you need a perfect guy to be happy?
What is a "perfect man" anyway?
We are human beings... and that means we are doing our best to manage life, find happiness, and cope with our challenges, and believe you me we have plenty of those. Mr. Nice Guy would help you face these challenges and overcome many of your stresses. In life we make poor decisions and many of us at some time may have engaged ourselves in unhealthy behavior. Try as we might we make mistakes – proving that the perfect guy may not exist. We have listed Mr. Perfect and Mr. Nice guy but what of the good guy of which I believe is the man to be looking for.
A good man is one who is a contributing member of society, who doesn`t harm others. He has a sense of care and understanding for humankind and values his friends and family. These are great qualities near to perfection, even if, perfection is not truly real in a human. A man who knows what his limitations are and can protect his boundaries and respect others' boundaries is a wise man. So now we have Mr. Wise man
We women are not so perfect; so why would we expect our men to be something we are not. Some women are so picky about their men that no man could ever possibly be good enough for her. If you don`t want to live your life as a miserable old spinster lower them expectations. Relationships tend to get stronger when both man and woman accept they are not perfect in one way or other, and if willing to admit to this, then any disagreements over perfection will simply fade.
Did you ever stop to think for one minute that the man standing in the corner of the room is looking for his perfect girl? Okay you know you`re not perfect – so how do you go about getting this man you have your eye on. The number one thing to do is be "Yourself" and nothing more. Should you over act and try to be something you're not then you `re not really you, are you. Flirting and dressing provocatively will not guarantee you will get your man," men yes maybe from these doings." If you truly want a healthy relationship with the man you like, the trick is not to pretend to be someone else.
Take a little inventory of yourself. Are there areas of your life in which you could better? Are there things you know you should do to better your life?
Something's to dwell on
1. Are you contributing your unique talents to the world?
2. Are you using your abilities in ways that are meaningful?
3. Are you productive? Using your time valuably?
4. Learn and create what is lost or hidden?
5. Are there people you need to forgive to live with more happiness?
6. Are you free from addictions and nasty habits?
7. Are there areas of your life that need bettering?
8. Are you taking good care of yourself emotionally, physically, and spiritually?
Rather than focus on false attraction means to get your man, why not focus on improving yourself and being the very best you, you can be? By doing this you up the odds of finding a truly ideal man who is right for you and, not a jerk. The British version of Jerk is Prat and we know plenty of these don`t we girls. Listen up all you jerks and prat's out there, and you know who you are, start being nice and stop acting the goat and women will like you more. Not a bad return for being Mr. Nice. If a guy doesn't like the real you, then he's not worth the time so remember this. Better to be the real you and not pretend to be something other than your true self
Last but not least we have the "REAL" man in a real world, who accepts his woman as she is, wanting to hold her, care for her and love her till death do them part. The real man has to be the perfect man in a woman`s eyes. So who do we pick girls Mr. Good Perfect Wise Nice Guy or the man with arms open wide?
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