Good Sex Positions & Sex Tips - Sexiest Moves & Ways To Seduce & Excite Your Partner
Posted: Saturday, June 06, 2009
by Kacycarr
http://www.spotthepimple.com
Is there any particular sex positions I should know about to please my partner. No. There is a multitude of different positions linked to sexual activity, and just like people who practice them they to also differ. When it boils down to sex positions it is all about personal preference, or sadly in some cases of a disability sex positions are limited. It's about what you and your partner are comfortable with but more importantly, "enjoy." Satisfaction is the key to good sex.
For good sex both parties need to be agreed on what sex position is best and pleasing for them "both." If we have one satisfied person and one who is not then I'm afraid it could result in serious complications in your relationship. You need to find out each other's likes and dislikes before performing in the bedroom.
Any matter linked to sex is and always will be classed as a sensitive issue. Those issues include personal likes, dislikes, sexually transmitted diseases, pregnancy or infections.
For pleasurable sex to happen there has to be good "communication between both people," along with body exploration tactics. Try out different sex positions till you find one most enjoyable. Be careful when experimenting in the sleeping quarters as accidents can happen. Your main objective is to find out what turns your partner on, or turns them off. Do this by feeling and touching. Begin with fondling stroking and rubbing; even gentle prodding or poking maybe necessary. If the body writhes this indicates that your partner is finding whatever it is you are doing likeable, or ticklish. It is up to you to decipher which it is.
Now we've established the reason why we can't be more precise in our prediction of the best sex position let us look at the one deemed most popular among couples.
The missionary position: Men on top positions aren't always passive for the woman. When the man settles on top of the woman it is called the "missionary" position. It is a sexual arrangement which allows the woman to control how much penal penetration is accepted thus setting the pace for sexual intercourse. We have several variations involved with the 'missionary' position, so it is up to you to settle on one or the other. It's your choice.
Missionary Sex Position Description:
The woman lies on her back with her legs apart. The man settles on top and penetrates from this position. Why this is the most common position when there isn't much involved is hard to understand. But as stated earlier about what are the best sex positions, "each to their own." Because the missionary position is uncomplicated and convenient i.e. "under and over - in and out, and your done, it is essential to initiate foreplay to add excitement. Good sex is always the result of what is initiated before the penis comes in contact with the vagina.
People have their own reasons for having sex this way. It is seen as a romantic position as it allows eye contact and kissing. Whereas sex which involves the man making entry from the rear makes it impossible for kissing and cuddling. Women have said they feel helpless because this arrangement restricts them from making an input. All women can do is to prepare the vagina for entry. Men love to dominate or be dominated, and it is the missionary position which permits him to do this. Women said their satisfaction came primarily from being dominated during intercourse.
Good Sex and Seduction Tips
- Sex is more times thought about before reaching the bedroom; therefore keep good body hygiene because you never know when it is to be your lucky night.
- Everyone smells: and certain odors are deemed acceptable, however we also have them that are not. Don't leave it to chance if you don't know which smell turns your partner off, "so wash."
- Clean your teeth and use a mouth wash. Bad breath is a major turn off.
- Eat a light snack before sexual intercourse. Heaviness will hamper performance, and if the missionary position is practiced then give some consideration to the woman underneath.
- Oysters and asparagus are assumed to be aphrodisiacs, but this is only because of visual or olfactory associations.
- Remember brewers droop fella's. Alcohol can raise a man's desire but lessen his ability to perform.
- If infection is suspected you should not contemplate having sex until it is cleared up.
- Always use a condom.
- Don't wade in and take your time. Focus on the genitalia taking things slow as you massage your partner. Massage is a great alternative to actual foreplay of the genitals, especially if your partner is tired or stressed.
- Tell your partner at every convenience how attractive or handsome he/she is. Kiss, compliment and spoil while caressing.
Women take longer to get excited and get as much pleasure out of body intimacy like, kissing and cuddling. If arousal is permitted to build steadily, it streams the whole body rather than being restricted to the genital region and a delayed orgasm is mightier than an orgasm persuaded by minutes of digital exploitation.
- Make foreplay time lengthy
- Make love by candlelight.
- Splash out on sexy lingerie.
- Bathe together in a bubble bath scattered with rose petals and candles. Have a glass of Champagne
- Use whipped cream to spice up the sex
- Make it a point to feel and touch every inch of your partner's body.
- Compliment your partner on how they look while making love
Spare your partner the humiliation. Guide and show them the way to pleasure you so you have the best sex ever
Good sex and Vaginal Infections /odor are major turn offs along with the problem Dry Vagina
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Top-level comments on this article: (8 total)Missionary Sex Position is the only position which is natural, enjoyable, convenient and god gift in the true sense.
Very insightful article, Thanks.Thank you Dennis your comment is much appreciatedKeep wellKacy
Thank you for sharing your insightsThank you Micheal
Well written and tasteful article that everyone should read.Hi Vardit your comment is much appreciated thank you for dropping inKeep wellKacy
"penal penetration" is inside a prison; you mean' penile"" just like people who practice them, they to also differ."; you mean;"too" as in 'also'". when if they had of known the spots to hit before the sex then everything "; should be;' if they had /would have known'Someone with a watchful eye eh. Thanks for the lesson. They say you learn something new every day, and today I have learned that someone is out there keeping this writer on her toesKeep wellKacyA woman is only as good in bed as she is grammatical before bed and grammatical after bed.........I beg to differ on this one - Ever heard the one ' What's the difference bewteen sex and conversation.' (Lie down and let's have a chat) and I bet when it gets as far as this point, where a full stop or exclamation mark goes is not even considered at the time (lol)Kacy
The Most Enjoyable Sex Is through GSPOT ORGASM. You cant imagine having multiple orgasms through it.You can practise it through different sex positions.gl.am/bSmLGI"Spot On" DrogbaKeep wellKacy
You can tell by all these views Kacy, what everyone is mainly interested in- whether thay comment or not!--LLOLHi Ella your so right and thank you for getting me out of the attic. I was beginning to rot and worried no one knew I was there, but my friend Ella knew, and dusted off the cobwebs and gave me hope of being noticed
Keep safe Ella
Kacy
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