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26 Chat Up Lines - Is It Funny Or Soppy Words The Opposite Sex Girl Boy Can't Say No To?



Posted: Thursday, June 25, 2009

by Kacycarr
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Best Chat Up Lines - Are you single and lonely and no matter what you do, or how hard you try to get noticed you still fail to attract the opposite sex leaving you back to square one…a lonely old soul. Have you never sat down and questioned yourself why this is. Well the quicker you do then the quicker that special someone can fill that void in your life.

Whatever reason is holding you back from not only attracting the opposite sex and securing a relationship in to the bargain has to be dealt with, or a lonely life you will live. Most people these days looking for courtship are using some of the best chat up lines to find love.

Most single people can and do get on with life, but them who are "lonely" and single can't. What is the difference between a single person and a "lonely" single person? More times than not the lonely will cry themselves to sleep. Crying is an emotion that a lot of lonely people do.

We all have an allotted match out there, that special someone who waits in anticipation to spark up a relationship with you, as you with them. You just have to find him/her. But how can this possibly happen when you sit at home moping. What is holding you back, is it the actual request for a date, or is it fear of rejection that worries you? If it is one or the other of these issues then that's no problem as we only have two hold me backs to overcome to get you out there mingling and pulling.

What's the big deal if the person you're attracted to says no to your invite for a date. You are not on your own here, we all have at some time or other been refused and rejected, and if you think about it this is a good thing because if we didn't we would all be dating the same people.

Millions of people just like you have experienced being refused a date but carry on regardless till they strike lucky. If they didn't the world would be full of bachelors and spinsters. In a way it's a good thing, is rejection. Let us say your first rendezvous was not denied, and romance did flourish… only to find later down the line your personalities clashed and your likes and dislikes incompatible. Had you received the "no" in the beginning, it would for many of you have helped avoid separation, parting of the ways or divorce.

Is it the face to face confrontation your uncomfortable with even though your chat up lines are some of the best around. Try writing down your feelings on paper for the person to read. The content shouldn't be soppy, that is unless you have an inclination that some interest is shown from the other party.

Have you decided being single is not for you and want to use one of your best chat up lines then this is good news. Using the right signs and signals you get the person you have your eye on to have their eyes on you. Once eye contact is made from across the room send over a warm and inviting smile, make it a cheeky one if need be, only not to cheeky as this can send out all the wrong signals.  And for heaven's sake make sure the right person receives your smile because serious complications could rise from someone else getting the wrong end of the stick. You could end up fending off more suitors than anticipated. If the smile is returned then this is a good sign, however not solid evidence to say this person is ready to secure a relationship with you. A smile is a friendly gesture that we all do so bear this in mind and don't jump the gun. A smile more times than not will bring curiosity from the one you are attracted to, who may dilly dally on over to find out the reason for the smile. (Not all dilly dally) Speak with your eyes if you have to but not to flaunty, eye contact is key factor in attraction.

For most single and lonely people their life of loneliness is purposely inflicted upon themselves, but sadly unbeknown to them.

Best chat up lines below

You have to be careful with chat up lines. It's too risky to approach someone you know nothing about and utter words not deemed appropriate to them. How are you supposed to know what they want to hear, you don't it's a catch 22 situation and this is why we say it's risky. If you think you know a little about the person because you have been watching them all night then by all means go for it, but you're still treading on eggshells. Remember, what you seen of this person throughout the evening laughing and joking with friends was with company of their own choosing, so they may not take to lightly in having to laugh with you.

Cheesy chat up lines can work, but they can also backfire as with any other chat up line so bear this in mind.

I believe funny is good for breaking the ice. But once again be fearless on approach in case of a backlash.  Funny chat up lines is better than soppy ones because if it goes wrong then you can laugh it off as being joke. Serious and soppy can create "sadness" for you in two ways when making an attempt to pull the opposite sex. First is the issue of being rejected, or secondly the issue of "not" being rejected.


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