Dirty Sex Dirty Talk & Good Sex Moves Save Relationships - Best Sex Tips
Posted: Saturday, December 05, 2009
by Kacycarr
http://www.spotthepimple.com
Sex & Dirty Talk - Why do so many couples split up because of, or argue over sex. As of late in the news even the rich and famous have problems in their marriage or relationship. Proof of this is spread all over the front page of every leading newspaper worldwide involving Tiger Woods private life. They say money can't buy love, but in this case of infidelity surrounding the golfer somehow makes you beg to differ.
What was the reason for Tiger Woods straying outside his marriage to sow his oats? Maybe this we will never know, however what's important is that we get to the root of your problem. If only Woody had sought help to try and resolve any issues in his marriage that gave him cause to touch another womans body would have saved a lot of people heartache, and any pain that was caused from him crashing his car.
If you have a problem with matters of a sexual nature in your relationship then don't wollow over it, you work on it and get it sorted asp. Now for whatever reason that holds you back from getting help likeTiger Woods is your business, but when it includes a partner that wants to have sex in the relationship then you owe it to them to sort matters and start giving them good sex again. If you get the right help then who knows it may better your sex moves, and have you loving your new found status of being called super stud by your lover.
If you can't have sex due to a health issue then this is usually a matter for your doctor, but, if It's because your stubborn and won't face up to the true reason why you're not having sex, or maybe embarrassed to seek help to get the sex back on par then you could lose the woman you love. Just because you don't want to have good sex you selfish pig, doesn't mean the sow should go without.
What are the common reasons for a sexless marriage or relationship? Most likely because hot steamy sex moves aren't practiced:
- Ill Health
- Infidelity
- Boredom
- Sex isn't as explosive as you would like it to be
- Erectile dysfunction
- Fear of being ridiculed
Infidelity – If your partner has cheated on you with another guy or girl and you're finding it hard to kiss them let alone get touchy-feely with them then you need to talk. Find out why they strayed and work on that so forgiveness can be given for their transgression, and to guarantee it doesn't happen again. It's easy to mend something, but it's just as easy for it to break again so remember this. Counselling is a good idea for couples with marriage problems. Not everyone is the same and tackle their sex problems differently. Most won't even consider counselling because they don't relish the thought of airing their dirty laundry to a complete stranger (even though an expert in the field.) If you fall into this category then it's up to you and your partner to get to the root of the problem yourselves so sex can be good again. You mustn't stop believing or giving up on the relationship ever working again. There are plenty of couples who had issues which included infidelity but have overcome the mess and gone on to having an even healthier sex life with their partner.
Best sex moves will happen when problems are resolved making this Christmas the best you ever had in the bedroom.
Boredom; surely you can relate to this if your partner turns their back to you to avoid having sex. Just think about it, for example: what do you do when you are served the same meal every day to eat, you soon get fed up and change the dish which makes you happy with the change. Well this applies to sex too. Imagine every night, (lucky you) you have to admit that doing the same thing i.e. up down - up down - up down can be pretty boring. You need to spice things up in the bedroom. Do things you would never have dreamed of doing. Explore the body and act out your fantasies and fetishes as long as they're not harmful, and your partner is agreeable to the sex move or sex acts you wish to perform on them. Introduce sex toys into your love making time. Aim to please with plenty of foreplay on both parts. If it turns you on then you can video yourselves.
Warning if you already have good sex in your relationship then don't put it at risk asking for a threesome, as you could be asking for serious trouble, however because you are having problems and the both of you believe this is the answer to your problem then I still say be careful.
If you're not in a relationship because you're scared of being ridiculed about your performance or size of your manhood (penis) then you have to stop thinking this or you may never get the chance to enjoy the fun involved with the up-down-in-out motion
Why would you think this anyway if you have never had sex with anyone yet? It's all in your head. And it's not the head we need to be thinking about here. Listen guys if it's your first time you are not to worry, because if its' the girls first time too she won't know what to expect. Nonetheless should she be fun loving and experienced at lying on her back then she is going to want this as much as you, and will guide you so both get explosive sex. As for the size of your penis, once again you are not to worry. It is not the size of the dog in fight its size of the fight in the dog, get my gist. The average penis usually stands at 6 inches, if yours be four, then give her the other two inches using other if need be.
To save your relationship and better the sex you could try talking dirty before, during and after intercourse if you like. Why after you ask, well simply because you may want to go at it again just like the rabbit. I could give you a run down on dirty things to say, but I believe it best coming from you and not me. Dirty talk in the heat of the moment in between puffing and panting is a good way of spicing up the sexual encounter. Even whispering sweet nothings is a good way to upgrade the sex from being best to fantastic sex.
Massage can help you have amazingly physical sex. Introduce massage into the foreplay section. It is a fabulous way to start things off slowly before the actual genitals make contact. Massage is relaxing and just the feel of each other's skin will give cause for arousal making the moment more intense. Massage works wonders for your sex life whether sexual intercourse takes place or not. It helps reduce stress and reaffirm the intimacy between you both
At the end of the day if there are sex problems in your relationship you can blame no other for the mess. If you got into it this mess then you can get out of it and "keep it private," but unfortunately Tiger Woods will never be able to do that.
Are you in a rocky Relationship & Sex is no more but only in thought. Get good sex back with the right advice
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Top-level comments on this article: (2 total)I have gained so much weight lately that I had a threesome last week and was all by myself!
How sad Paul - no one there to give you handKacy
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