How to Tell If Your Partner IsTelling Lies & Cheating? Tell Tale Signs That their Having An Affair
Posted: Monday, January 11, 2010
by Kacycarr
http://www.spotthepimple.com
If someone is lying how can you tell? How can you tell if someone is telling the truth? If it is you asking these questions then it tells me someone you know is telling you fibs, and you want to be certain that they are. You will have your reasons for wanting to know the truth, as much as the liar wants to hide it.
You need to be cunning and clever to get a liar to either admit they are telling lies, or you have enough proof to confirm that they are.
When a person seeks to find out the signs to prove someone is a liar, that person is usually looking to catch out a cheating partner, or catch out a thief, or the most common to show the liar that they are just that, a liar. They say you can trust a thief but never a liar. The crook and they who commit adultery are compulsive liars; they have to be if you think about it, so their sordid little secrets stay safe.
It's easier to tell when a partner is telling lies about having an affair behind you're back, than that of living with a partner that's a compulsive liar, making it a lot trickier. A person not noted for fibbing you can detect dishonesty right from the minute they open their mouth. But for the one who constantly lies it's not so simple to tell.
Are you sleeping with a pathological liar? Some people say it is an illness because pathological liars do in most cases actually believe their make believe stories they tell their boyfriend, girlfriend, husband,wife, or anyone in saying that.
Since pathological lying is so plausible people can see the tell-tale signs of a liar, but can still be taken in.
Are you living with a pathological liar?
Liars tend to find it difficult to stay still while having a conversation. Their actions are a sure give away. Their feet is on the go all the time, as with their hands too maybe touching their face and mouth or fiddling with their hair, Their body movement will look like someone trying to get comfortable.
Eye contact is almost impossible. Rapid eye movements and shifting the eyes downward and to the right while they talk can be a sign they are lying.
Liars tend to hesitate and stammer before answering a question. If they ask you to repeat the question you asked they are stalling for time. This gives them time to think how to get out of the pickle they are in.
You need to be careful when confronting a liar. If you back them into a corner they may become defensive and aggressive, so be on your guard.
A spouse/boyfriend or girlfriend, who lies about their cheating on you, will puzzlingly be unavailable for phone calls. They may also display other mysterious traits you're not familiar with.
Dishonest people usually always get caught out; they tend to get caught up in their own inconsistencies on things like their place of work, past relationships, money status, and more.
Persevere and watch for the signs and then it's only a matter of time when they will falter.
Okay so your partner is not a pathological liar, but hey at the end of the day a liar is a liar.
Tips on how to tell if your partner/ spouse are telling you lies.
Look into your partners eyes while addressing the matter of infidelity. A guilt-ridden person's eyes will show deceit. If they can't look you in the face then something is not right. If you are not getting direct eye contact then there's a great possibility of betrayal in your relationship.
Guilty hands are a good clue to dishonesty. Someone with something to hide will in most cases sweat profusely. Look at their forehead and feel their hands discreetly, and if they are sweaty then this could be a sign they are not telling the truth and cheating on you behind your back.
Is he/she tense and agitated around you, if so question this because whatever else could be the reason for them being unnerved around you.
Take note of the tone of their voice. Normally they tend to lower the tone if hiding the truth from you.
If you are in a relationship with a cheating spouse and they are desperate to keep the truth from you then it might not be easy to catch them out. Some liars are truly good at what they do. Good liars are clever people, and great at covering their tracks making it more difficult for you to find out what it is you want to know. Ah, but are their friends as good a liar as they. Something worth considering, pending your investigation.
To outsmart a liar is to be ahead of them. Bide your time. If you broach the matter without enough evidence to back you up, and the cheating partner knows you're onto them, it will give them time to get their story right and ring a few friends for an alibi, but if you act as if you know nothing they will think they have pulled the wool over your eyes only to find out your a sheep in wolf's clothing when they slip up.
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