10 Sure Signs That Show Someone Fancies You - How To Tell Or Spot The Signs If He/She likes you
Posted: Friday, May 14, 2010
by Kacycarr
http://www.spotthepimple.com
How to tell when someone fancies you? I have to say it'll help no end if you know the signs to look out for to say someone is interested you. Have you ever found yourself in that all time embarrassing situation where you thought someone fancied you, and then feeling all full of yourself have made a bee-line for them, only to be left wishing the ground would open and swallow you up when that person shunned you?
Before going through the list of things to look out for, you need to remember people differ when it comes down to asking a person of the opposite sex out on a date, and therefore don't always show their feelings, or act in the way you might expect them too.
If the signs are there act on them as you might not get a second chance. Be more vigilant from now on if you don't want to be left on the shelf.
I fancy you signs
1. Silence
If a person you think fancies you doesn't bid you the time of day, or gab the leg off you, it does not mean they don't like you, in fact it could be a sign that they are frightened of looking foolish and won't take the risk of making a prat of themselves. If you see there's some chemistry there then you may need to take charge Start a conversation but be prepared as they may be nervous which might show in their voice, or have them talk a hold load of crap. Nonetheless be encouraging and interested. By doing they will settle and their confidence will grow. Once they have come out of their shell they'll start to make sense.
2. Making fun of you
Attack is the best form of defence if someone takes the mickey out of you; however don't jump the gun as it could be a sign. Nerves can make people do funny things. If someone that likes you, taunts you, then you're not to wring their neck but instead get their phone number and ring that.
3. Disappearing Act
Someone who fancies you might try and avoid you in the street. They might duck or dive into the nearest shop doorway or alley. Is this not the actions of a madman or mad woman, no, it's the actions of someone that's mad about you. Their disappearing act into the nearest nook or cranny is not something they do because they want to, but simply because they maybe the timid type and haven't got a clue how to cope with the situation should they come face to face with you.
4. Amnesia
Ok, you had drunken encounter 3 years back, and out of the blue you meet up with the man/woman from that night. You ask how they are, only to have them say they have no memory of the rendezvous. Don't be fooled, under all that pretence could be someone who really likes you.
5. Going Dutch on the first date
When someone's crazy about you (male,) and pluck up the courage to ask you out for dinner doesn't mean they won't be trembling in their boots. They may want to be careful not to seem over-keen, or out to buy affection or sex. So you don't think this they could ask you to pay half the bill. (Not in all cases but it has happened.) It's a catch 22 situation because there he is hoping you don't get the wrong idea, but at the same times risks the relationship going further because you see him as tight fisted.
6. False look
People tend to respond subconsciously to a person they are attracted to by improving their posture. Men might open their top shirt button to reveal a bare chest, and women sweep their hair back, or push their boobs out in front of them. Should this happen to you - someone baring their flesh, or nearly knocking you out with their breasts, then there's a good chance they have the hots for you.
7. Flirting with your friend
It is an all time common sign to see a friend being used for selfish purposes. Rather than being faced with rejection from you personally a guy/girl who fancies the pants off you may choose to make it easier for them-selves and turn to your mate. They know if they make a good impression on your best friend then there's a possibility they'll go back running to tell you all about their great qualities. In the time they spend with your mate they will quiz them unbeknown to them to find out more about you.
8. Proxy flirting
The person that fancies you like hell and who hasn't got the courage to ask you out may bring a friend in to help. They will ask the friend to be flirty if he/she has to, in hope to coax you into having a night out as a group. Of course if they succeed then it's likely with the mingling and socializing they might get the confidence then to ask you out for a date.
9. Silly talk
Some folk let their nerves get the better of them thus them talking in riddles. You could find you can't understand what they say, or know what they are going on about. Chances are they're aware that their mouth is spouting rubbish, but it's out of their control. Be patient because when the quiver in their voice disappears it's just a matter of time before a civilized conversation comes to the fore.
10. Call brawl
Another sign to say a person might fancy you - is when they give you some cock and bull story as an excuse just to see or talk to you at every convenience. Also you can tell if a person likes you if they keep on bumping into you at the corner shop when they live in another town some five miles away. They could even call you up on the phone for a slagging match just to hear your voice.
I suggest if a person fancies you and in your heart you know they are the one for you then you mustn't wait around. Don't regret not doing, and live the rest of your life wondering, if only.
In a troublesome relationship where sex is bad but you want it good
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Top-level comments on this article: (1 total)Ahh Kacy- As I said, you are a very wise woman. You have an amazing ability to understand the nuances of the human being- which is amply demonstrated in this article, and I'm sure will be of invaluable aid to many. Thank You- Always- EllaThanks Ella for dropping by and taking time out to comment - your time is much appreciated. And all you say is reciprocated back to youKeep wellKacy
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