Biggest Turn Offs For Men Top 8 Libido Killers – What Men Hate About Women That Puts Him Off Sex
Posted: Tuesday, August 17, 2010
by Kacycarr
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Biggest turn offs that men hate: Are you the sort of girl that likes to please her man no matter the consequence, or cost? Is it filling his belly with the right foods, you're appearance, or satisfying his needs in bed you worry over the most.
Do you go out of your way to make your partner happy? If yes is the answer then you are not on your own because it's a natural thing that most women do. However, it takes two to tango so he should meet you half way. Trying too hard can make you physically sick
Unfortunately in a lot of cases, no matter how much effort and the lengths a woman has gone to, to appear flawless in her mans eye, he may not see her that way, or, notice the hard work she's put in to make the relationship all hunky dory, but hey, that's men for you, maybe not all, but still going with the vast majority.
It is not good for a woman to change her ways just please her man. Never must you put on an act and try to be someone you are not, acting is for thespians.
If you are desperate to keep the guy in your life at your side and in your bed but not sure about a few things on how to do this, then the best way to find out is to ask him what his likes and dislikes are, but then you're not always guaranteed an honest answer. Some men may lie to avoid hurting your feelings, while others don't care how much hurt they cause.
Timing is important when wanting to get things out in the open. Sometimes it's hard to tell what a man is thinking. Men have a tendency to retreat into their own small world that shuts you out, making it more difficult for you to get answers. In between the time of him coming out his comfort zone, there is a list of libido killers you might find of interest.
Eight biggest turn offs for men in their women that they hate
Odour
Men don't like their women smelly. Have I got news for you guys this goes both ways. Blokes are easily turned off if their partner has bad breath; smelly armpits, unhygienic bits, and by girls who let rip trumps. Women who purposely break wind, men find a big turn off. To avoid embarrassment lay off certain foods that give you gas before going on a date, or getting into bed. There is nothing erotic about farting, so don't do it, not even for a laugh, as it is not funny. It's a catch 22 girls because men also said certain fragrances or too much perfume turned them off.
Idiots
Men said they found going to bed with an idiot a complete turn off. I'm not sure what they meant by this, idiot as in, acting the goat, or idiot, because you haven't swallowed a dictionary. In a way this is good to hear because it tells me there are a lot of clever females out there. How do I know this? Simple, show me a man who is only seconds from getting his end away, stops, because the girl can't add up.
Boredom
One big turn off that men hate is, if you come across as a boring person. It can make your man grumpy, frustrated, even angry. Guys who find themselves in a situation where they are left twiddling their thumbs when they would rather be twiddling with something else are never going to be a happy bunny. Have fun and keep whatever you have in mind for entertaining him, exciting
Conversation
Don't talk crap, but talk dirty. If this is done right, dirty talk is fabulous, and a key factor to having good sex for some couples. Remember not to go over the top and babble on. Too much gab is a big turn off for some men, especially for those who would be rather doing instead of listening. It's distracting when a girl doesn't know when to shut up said the vast majority.
Questions
Rude words and action is all that should take place in the bed. You need to avoid asking questions like am I doing that wrong?' Shall we turn the light off?' or Should I wear this or something else?' Men don't want this, they want to get down to the nitty gritty. Faced with a succession of problems it is not helpful to spontaneous, passionate love-making.
Clever Clogs
Men like their women to be smart, but most still cannot hack the woman being that little bit smarter than him. Sleeping with a prat, at least you don't really care what they think. But intelligence can be intimidating.
False Identity
Be you because when the push-up bra or designer girdle that gave you shape is removed, the the guy sees another person before him, and not the girl he was attracted too. Remember, making something look better than it really is then you are heading for trouble (disappointment for him.) It's a bit like giving someone a chocolate creme egg only to find no creme in the centre.
Alcohol
Some blokes like their women boozed up because it's an easy leg spreader so they say, but that's just some, others find a drunken woman a big turn off. Drunken sex is not for most. As with most things there are the downsides as well as the pluses. In the case of booze and how drunk a person is, they tend to see double, so it's bit like two the price of one. This might just be one turn off he might not see as turn off after all.
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